In the heat of anger, couples say many hurtful things they later regret. According to loversecretz please, read carefully and make sure you don't ruin your relationship by using these five hurtful and mocking words when arguing with your wife or husband. It could save your marriage.
1. You are still a kid and immature
Sometimes you are tempted to use this words against your partner especially when you are way older than him or her. This phrase usually tears down their self-respect and ego. It destroys the confidence they have in themselves. Why did you accept him/her to be your lover in the first place since you know fully well that you are older than him/her? You see, this is demoralizing and should be avoided for a healthy relationship.
2. I am missing my ex
The fact is that ladies are guilty of this most times, especially if they have a quarrel with their boyfriend, just to knock him off. Well, am advising you not to insult your man just to make him feel defeated. Never bring issues about your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend into your relationship. It's better to leave the relationship than to bring up that silly statement that you miss your ex. Grow up, stop acting immature!
3. You are a poor guy
This annoying statement is used by ladies, especially the ones that guys outside always chase, and these guys are wealthier than her boyfriend. Maybe the guys asking her out owns a car and her boyfriend doesn’t. Such words never come from your mouth ladies, if you don’t like him because of his financial situation, better leave and stop using such demoralizing words on him.
4. One minutes man
This sounds terrible! Any lady guilty of using this on her man is heartless! It is better you find a way to solve this if it is a problem with your guy. Common, there are natural supplements out there, and you guys can sort this out. Never use this on any man, it kills his self-confidence.
5. Who paid for it?
Sometimes, when things are going rough in a relationship, the breadwinner, especially guys gets angry and starts reminding the girl that he is the one taking care of the bill, that is he pays her fees, take care of her hair, feed her, recharges her phone and all that. Using this is dreadful and might make you lose the love she has for you.
Although you might always be tempted to use wrong words on your partner whenever you get angry, you should behave mature and try to sort things out without using these bad words. Have it at the back of your mind that such utterances can ruin your relationship, so it is wise to avoid such.
What other words do you think will be awful if used on your partner?
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