My boss and his wife have been married for about 11 years without a child and the wife filed for a divorce. We started a relationship when he came down about a year ago and wished I could get pregnant for him. We use to have s*x but didn't see any sign of pregnancy so I concluded he may be the one with a problem. We decided not to have s*x again on the 1st of Jan as we both feel guilty after the act.
I tested positive when I checked with a test strip, so I'm pregnant. He's very happy but I'm not. He told me he wants to go and see my family and have the necessary rites performed in March. My worry is he might not do so and the pregnancy will start showing.
I had the same problem with my son's dad who always postponed the date till my tummy grew and everyone noticed yet he didn't marry me.
I suggested an abortion but he cried saying I'm depriving him of becoming a father besides he's getting to 40. My family will be very disappointed in me for making such a choice as I won't call this a mistake. I'm so confused and need your advice.
I tested positive when I checked with a test strip, so I'm pregnant. He's very happy but I'm not. He told me he wants to go and see my family and have the necessary rites performed in March. My worry is he might not do so and the pregnancy will start showing.
I had the same problem with my son's dad who always postponed the date till my tummy grew and everyone noticed yet he didn't marry me.
I suggested an abortion but he cried saying I'm depriving him of becoming a father besides he's getting to 40. My family will be very disappointed in me for making such a choice as I won't call this a mistake. I'm so confused and need your advice.
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